The God Who is There

Suffering - Pastoral Care or Apologetics?

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Pat Reeder

John 11:20-44; 1 Peter 3:15

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Unfortunately some of us have been perpetrators or victims of apologetics used during sensitive and difficult times that are cringe-worthy. How do we balance providing truth and biblical answers in times of suffering with being a caring and sensitive friend? This workshop helps practically break down scenarios and address appropriate responses to others' suffering based on timing and relationship, amongst other factors. As we learn some practical steps in both pastoral cases and apologetical cases, we become better equipped to provide thoughtful responses to others around us.

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Suffering - Pastoral Care or Apologetics?

John 11:20-44, 1 Peter 3:15-15

John 11:20-44,1 Pet 3:15-15 John 11:20-44, 1Pet 3:15-15

By Pat Reeder

Teaching Date: 07/13/2018


Unfortunately some of us have been perpetrators or victims of apologetics used during sensitive and difficult times that are cringe-worthy. How do we balance providing truth and biblical answers in times of suffering with being a caring and sensitive friend? This workshop helps practically break down scenarios and address appropriate responses to others' suffering based on timing and relationship, amongst other factors. As we learn some practical steps in both pastoral cases and apologetical cases, we become better equipped to provide thoughtful responses to others around us.

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