Love: The Mark of a Christian

Fighting for Friendship - Practical Wisdom for Building and Maintaining Friendships

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Conrad Hilario

Genesis 2:18; Proverbs 19:4; 1 Samuel 18:1; 2 Samuel 1:25-26; Proverbs 18:24

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Due to the superficial level of friendship in our culture today, we are seeing drastic levels of loneliness. People don't put an emphasis on friendships because of many modern challenges, including technology. There are many qualities that we find in scripture that help guide us to successful friendships. We find that good friends speak honestly, give wise counsel, have relational awareness, and don't influence others to sin. We can look to David and Jonathan's relationship as an example on how to strive towards close friendships.

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Fighting for Friendship - Practical Wisdom for Building and Maintaining Friendships

Genesis 2:18-18, Proverbs 19:4-4, 1 Samuel 18:1-1

Gen 2:18-18,Prov 19:4-4,1 Sam 18:1-1 Gen 2:18-18, Prov 19:4-4, 1Sam 18:1-1

By Conrad Hilario

Teaching Date: 07/14/2016


Due to the superficial level of friendship in our culture today, we are seeing drastic levels of loneliness. People don't put an emphasis on friendships because of many modern challenges, including technology. There are many qualities that we find in scripture that help guide us to successful friendships. We find that good friends speak honestly, give wise counsel, have relational awareness, and don't influence others to sin. We can look to David and Jonathan's relationship as an example on how to strive towards close friendships.

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